In this video Abraham Hicks does a speech. Now you can be like whooo Raising your vibrations. The main point is in order to get good things, Blessings and the things you desire in life is you must feel good before. Celebrate before the blessings and be transformed and Dance in the rain. Rather then complaining find simple things to be thankful for. She does a great a example of having a job you hate and rather then complaining say "Well atleast I have a Job." Things like that "Well the sun came up today and Im breathing."
"I thought id wait for my luck to turn and then id have a celebratory party, Now I understand I have to have the celebration first and then my luck turns."